As you age, blood fills your genitals more slowly as you become aroused, which means you don't have the same sensitivity and reaching orgasm takes longer. Typically, you need more direct and intense stimulation of your clitoris.
If you’ve heard or read that you won’t be able to orgasm after menopause, you should know that’s completely false. Orgasms — and great sex — are still absolutely possible, through menopause and beyond.
Can a woman have an Orgasim after menopause?